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By Anna Freeman

Mistress Marley quit her 9-5 job in New York to start findomming full time for a six-figure salary. Annalou spoke to her about the non-stop hustle of online findom, draining powerful men's wallets as reparations for the black community, and why male 'finsubs' relinquish their cash in the ultimate power exchange under capitalism. 

The formidable financial dominatrix Mistress Marley is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about quitting the 9-5 rat race to humiliate 'pay pigs' for a six-figure salary. In this episode you'll hear about the nonstop hustle of a New York FinDomme, draining powerful men's wallets as reparations for the black community. Learn about this deeply psychological kink thriving in the digital era, where male 'finsubs' relinquish cash in the ultimate power exchange under capitalism. Dubbed the Beyoncé of BDSM, Mistress Marley will make you want to give up your day job, too.

Online findom is thriving in the digital age. Throw in a global pandemic where everyone's lives have moved online and the demand for virtual domination means big business. Type #findomme into the Twitter search bar, and you'll find thousands of (mostly female) financial dominants looking for 'pay pigs', or 'fin subs'. An often controversial kink within BDSM, findomming shares many attributes of the traditional Dom/sub dynamic – such as power exchange, humiliation, and degradation – but differs in one key aspect: sessions happen almost exclusively in the digital realm.

It can be hard to wrap your head around the concept. What motivates a person to give their hard-earned cash to a woman who humiliates them online? Mistress Marley, dubbed the Beyoncé of BDSM, is here to demystify online findom – and she might encourage you to quit your day job, too.